ya gotta wonder why certain behavioural traits are favoured over others (the spell check is telling me those two words do not have a "u" in them- the spell check is incorrect). i just got to thinking that things that are considered social graces, like knowing when a gentleman should remove his hat, are seen as better, or above others. at least, they see themselves that way, i s'pose. so unnatural, though, to construct a little barbie hotel of ideas about how we should behave. fuck youuu.